The inevitable result…
In many churches today discussing passages like Colossians 3, or its parallel passages in Ephesians 5 and 1 Peter 3, are off-limits. It isn’t even mentioned privately in pre or post marriage counseling, and the idea of preaching on it is positively unthinkable. A large portion of evangelicalism flinched in the face of feminism, and ceded this point.
The inevitable result of this is the loss of a proper understanding of the Trinity. We emphasize the co-equal, and by implication emphasize the equality of the husband/wife relationship, but then neglect the submission of the Son to the Father. Once you begin abandoning the revealed truth of Scripture for the sake of convenience, pride, or really any reason whatsoever, the inevitable slide into heresy begins.
This is demonstrated quite clearly in this story from Fox News on the PCUSA national assembly putting forward an action to change ‘Father, Son, and Holy Spirit’ to ‘Mother, Child, and Womb’ or ‘Rock, Redeemer, Friend’. Many people see this and shake their heads in dismay. They recognize that it’s wrong. What they don’t recognize is that their own rebellion against God’s Word are the same actions that led the PCUSA to where it is today.
Men are not by any means off the hook here either. This story brings to mind the passage of Jeremiah 44. Here, the women of Judah have been committing idolatry, worshipping the ‘Queen of Heaven’. The Lord, through the prophet Jeremiah rebuked them, and they rejected his instruction outright:
15 Then all the men who were aware that their wives were burning sacrifices to other gods, along with all the women who were standing by, as a large assembly, including all the people who were living in Pathros in the land of Egypt, responded to Jeremiah, saying,
16 “As for the message that you have spoken to us in the name of the LORD, we are not going to listen to you!
17 “But rather we will certainly carry out every word that has proceeded from our mouths, by burning sacrifices to the queen of heaven and pouring out drink offerings to her, just as we ourselves, our forefathers, our kings and our princes did in the cities of Judah and in the streets of Jerusalem; for then we had plenty of food and were well off and saw no misfortune.
This is a classic excuse from people who wish to attempt to justify their rebellion. They confuse God’s mercy and generosity with His blessing. Despite the clear teaching that God causes rain to fall on the righeous and the unrighteous, they assume that if they get rain He must think they’re ok.
Note that the men were in full awareness of the activities of their wives, as noted above, and then in vs 19:
19 “And,” said the women, “when we were burning sacrifices to the queen of heaven and were pouring out drink offerings to her, was it without our husbands that we made for her sacrificial cakes in her image and poured out drink offerings to her?”
Do you see what is happening here? The men in these families did nothing to intervene in the unbiblical actions of their wives. As a result, their wives used this as justification for their actions. As husbands we will be called to account for this, and it is our failing as men, both in our leadership in the home and in the church, that has brought the church to a state where this sort of thing can happen. We can point the finger at feminism, the the fault lies ultimately with us as men.
Further, it specifically comes from our failure to define a standard. Confessional churches have an easier time of this, because there is an objective standard of the way Scriptures are interpreted. The elders in a church can be held to it. The Elders can use it as a valuable resource in handling these sorts of movements. However, the majority of evangelicalism has ejected the majority of creeds, and certainly don’t require any sort of subscription to them. As a result, our churches are adrift, and vulnerable to exactly this sort of thing.
